No Time for Words

“While he was still speaking…from the cloud a voice said,

‘This is my Son, the Beloved…listen to him!’”

–Matthew 17:5

Among the joys of living close to our grandchildren is the ability to be present for the more ordinary occasions. When our children were growing up, we lived hundreds of miles away from both sets of grandparents. While they had close relationships with their grandmothers and grandfathers the visits were always scheduled far in advance. By contrast, two of our grandchildren live 45 minutes from us and the other two of them only 10 minutes. We are blessed. 

Our younger grandson turns three this month and like his older cousins and younger sister, has brought us great joy in seeing him progress through developmental milestones. He loves books and all things mechanical. His speech continues to grow in expressing complex thoughts, too, often asking us how our day has been.  

Recently, he has started this habit of being involved in some activity only to suddenly say to me “No talking, Papa!” There’s no pattern to it. It doesn’t happen when he’s trying to watch television or is afraid I will awaken his baby sister. It can come after he has just said something himself, too, but out of the blue he will look up and order “No talking, Papa!”  I don’t take it personally as he does the same thing with his parents and Lori, but it always leaves me wondering if he has simply had enough!

There’s no question what was behind the call for silence in the Biblical verse above. It comes on the day of Jesus’ transfiguration when he has taken Peter, James and John up a mountain. After arriving, his appearance was transformed and his clothes became brilliantly white. As the three disciples looked on in amazement, two key figures from Israel’s past—Moses and Elijah—appeared with Jesus.

Peter says “Lord, it is good for us to be here; if you wish, I will make three dwellings here, one for you, one for Moses, and one for Elijah.”  I wonder how Peter knew who stood with his teacher. Those two ancestors in the faith walked the earth thirteen and nine centuries before that day. There were no photos, of course, and Jesus makes no introductions either. Still, Peter identifies them correctly and offers to build shelter. Maybe he was trying to make the experience last. Perhaps he was simply babbling on, not knowing what to make of what he was seeing.

Whatever Peter’s reasoning, while still talking a cloud surrounds them all and a voice declares “This is my Son, the Beloved; with him I am well pleased; listen to him!”  

That’s good counsel. When life is confusing and we aren’t sure what to do next, our best option is to “listen to him.”  When people we deeply love espouse political beliefs we cannot stomach, our best course of action is to “listen to him,” too. When we are grieving or find little hope for the future, when our prayers go unanswered or life just seems stuck in some way it’s wise to “listen to him.”   To take out the gospels and hear his words again or perhaps for the first time; to let those words in all of their power and comfort speak to our life. To do that, of course, we have to listen.

Or as my grandson would put it “No talking!”

Source of All Knowledge, help us to stop speaking long enough to truly listen to you.  Amen.


  1. Ronnalee

    How very true, you can learn so much more by just listening. Enjoy those precious moments with the grandkids!

    1. Anonymous

      We certainly are!

  2. Berry

    Agree, all of our grandsons live in the same town. Blessed to be a part of their growth and development.

  3. Anonymous

    One of our former pastors suggested not to read the Bible when the gospel is being read during services..but just to listen as it is being read… I agree with this..
    Grandchildren have an uncomplicated look at things…

    1. When I am sitting in the pews for worship I will rarely open the Bible for the Scripture readings as I, too, prefer to hear them. I find that my imagination begins to working in a different a way than when I follow along on the page.

  4. Deirdre

    I look forward to these words of wisdom every week. Thanks for continuing to share your gifts, John!

  5. Krista

    I love this perspective. We always think that, as adults, we are the teachers, and children are the students. However, I am learning that in reality, children may be the best teachers of all. So often, their wisdom is far greater than ours. Thank you for this blog…I really enjoy reading the entries each week!

    Enjoy this special time with your grandkids!

    1. I love that idea, Krista, and completely agree!

  6. Jeanne

    Words of wisdom, as always…….thanks John.

  7. Anonymous

    Amen…from the mouth of children…a reminder to listen, to hear to be open!
    Children and pets are great teachers!

  8. Anonymous

    When we listen to our children especially young, innocent, unfiltered children, we can hear them make profound statements that stay with us forever. Thank you, John, for being a good listener and a quick study to apply what you hear to the lives of the rest of us! Love to all, kt

  9. Kathy

    Wise words from your grandson! You are indeed blessed.

    1. Indeed we are!

  10. Steve Spadt

    I love this so much! I really want to follow your grandson’s model and start shouting “no talking!” in meetings at work. One of my all-time favorite thoughts on this topic (secular, but helpful, nonetheless): “All of humanity’s problems stem from man’s inability to sit quietly in a room alone.” (Blaise Pascal) And for the record, “alone” doesn’t count if you have a phone/device with you. How many of our kids and youth don’t even know what that would feel like?

    1. While I wouldn’t recommend quoting my grandson at a meeting, Steve, I certainly understand the temptation! 😇