The Stranger

“Then one said, ‘I will surely return to you in due season,

and your wife Sarah shall have a son.’”

–Genesis 18:10 

I firmly believe that God is always at work. The Bible makes clear that such activity can happen in dramatic ways, but I suspect it occurred then and now far more often in the small, everyday moments of life. I also am convinced that the Divine One is nudging, whispering, and orchestrating events far more frequently than we recognize. Scripture doesn’t record every moment of God’s activity from the past and I suspect we miss many of those moments today far more often than they occur as well. Yet thankfully, there are also these occasions when God’s work and our awareness come together beautifully, leaving us to wonder “What just happened?” 

A number of years ago, I had one of those moments at a bagel shop. For a while after moving to Pennsylvania, I would leave our home early on Sunday morning for coffee and two toasted blueberry bagels with butter. After enjoying the food and quiet, I would then head for the church and its morning of preaching, teaching, and pastoring.  

I began that routine when we still lived in North Carolina and after relocating here scouted out options before settling on my favorite place. Long before retirement that visit stopped being part of my Sunday morning pattern. The quality of food and ambiance was still wonderful. I’m not saying my routine changed due to having a registered dietician in the family, but will leave it up to you to connect the dots!

At any rate, in those initial years, I was such a regular presence at this particular bagel shop that after a few weeks of being the first customer, one of the owners asked me to name my favorite flavor. On hearing my answer she then promised always to have blueberry bagels ready by 7 a.m. and did. I realized later how intent she was in honoring that vow as one morning when I went to the cash register to place my order she said “You’re the first thing I think of when I wake up on Sunday mornings.” My blank expression must have revealed I wasn’t quite sure how to respond. She quickly added “Oh, you know, the blueberry bagels!”

One morning, I walked in just as the shop opened, paid for my purchase, and then moved toward a table to eat and go over my sermon. I sat there quietly, looking over my notes and mouthing a few words, while occasionally gazing out the window. As I walked outside minutes later to get into my car, another customer was getting into an adjacent vehicle. We had not spoken inside, but as we caught each other’s eye then he said “Good luck with your message this morning.” I replied “How do you know what I’m doing?” He smiled and said “I’ve delivered enough of them in my own lifetime to recognize the clues. I hope it goes well.”  He then got into his car and left.

While I initially began to wonder if I had been talking out loud at the table or if he had noticed the bulletin or if my wearing a suit made me more noticeable, I soon let the mystery of that encounter simply stand on its own. As the words from that stranger (who I never saw again) left me strengthened for the day ahead

There was a similar result for Abraham and Sarah at the time of the conversation shown above. By that point, they had been waiting twenty-four years since God promised to make a great nation of them. By any standard then or today the window of biological parenthood would seem to have closed, for on the day recalled in our text Abraham was 99 years old and his wife a decade younger.

Three visitors appear. Abraham is sitting at the entrance to his tent when he looks up and sees the men standing nearby. Acting on the sense of hospitality still valued in that part of the world, he urges the men to stay and offers food, water, and a place to rest. When they accept, he rushes to Sarah who prepares the meal. He takes it to the guests and stands as they eat. A conversation begins.

“Where is your wife Sarah?” Abraham points toward the tent as one visitor says, “I will surely return to you in due season, and your wife Sarah shall have a son.” 

With that word, it is clear that one of these guests is God. Sarah overhears his promise from inside the tent. She laughs quietly to herself. “After I have grown old, and my husband is old,” she muses, shall I have pleasure?” God asks Abraham “Why did Sarah laugh…Is anything too wonderful for the LORD? At the set time I will return to you, in due season, and Sarah shall have a son.” As that scene winds down, the woman denies laughing and is told (by either God or Abraham) “Oh yes, you did laugh.” 

It’s a wonderful scene. The laughter from Sarah becomes memorialized in the name of the son borne the following year, as Isaac literally means “he laughs.” Thus, every time Abraham and Sarah called his name in the years that followed they gave voice to a natural response after some incredible news from God.  

Driving by my previous bagel destination doesn’t make me laugh these days, yet it still reminds me of a brief conversation from long ago. Stay alert to such encounters today or ones from your  past. You just never know how and through whom God will choose to speak yet.

God of the stranger, I am blessed by the diverse ways you appear in the ordinary events of my life. Keep me attuned this day to your activity that I might hear and respond. Maybe, even with laughter. Amen


  1. Don Lincoln

    Loved hearing your early Sunday routine. Like you, I started early, but with home-brewed coffee. In the pulpit by 6:30am with manuscript and red pen – sound system on – preaching to an empty sanctuary, but mostly letting God preach to me. I did that for the first time when I candidated at Westminster – and wanted to get a feel for the pulpit and sanctuary on that morning. The custodian let me in early. I never stopped; had that routine every Sunday for 22 years. Usually a mug of instant oatmeal back in my office as I tweaked. I’m thinking blueberry bagels sound better.

    Thanks for the reminder of God’s daily activity. Loved the stranger’s noticing and comment……… 🙂

    1. What an amazing routine, Don! Clearly, it paid off for the saints of Westminster. I would imagine that one of the big adjustments for you in retirement was to sleep in on Sunday mornings! 🙂

  2. Jeanne

    Just as I wrote before, the Lord is up there all the time. He is taking care of the things that he is responsible for, and he is watching what I am doing with my life, and giving me the intelligence to make the decisions that are wise for myself and my family. Over the years we lived in Buckingham, I spent many hours randomly sitting in the sun on our deck and thinking about what I should do about this or that or something else. The guidance to make the best decision was always in the air.

  3. Jeanne

    One of the best decisions that the Lord guided me to was to fly with Dave to Tuscaloosa, Alabama this past weekend, and watch our first grandson, Luke, graduate from the University of Alabama. Didn’t matter that it poured rain with lightning and thunder, it was terrific experience. Plus our two other daughters were there as well. I remember looking around and thinking God has given me the ability to spend my life with a terrific family. He also gave us the ability to cope with the airplane that was supposed to leave at 1:30 pm but didn’t take off until nearly 8:00 pm. We survived!

    1. I’m so happy that you could be present for that event even with the delays. Way to go!

  4. Steve Spadt

    What a wonderful story! As we prepare Evan for his all-too-soon transition to his college experience, we parents inevitably think back to our days on campus. The moments like those you’ve described are the ones we remember, aren’t they? It’s not the exams or the lectures or even the hours of toiling away in our studies–though they are critically important, of course. It’s encounters in bagel shops and parking lots. It’s a familiar face smiling at you on the same stretch of campus each morning. It’s the voices all around you in the dining hall. It’s the million little conversations and shared moments you have in that hustling, bustling, growing, learning community of kids just trying to figure it out together: “what is this beautiful life of mine for, anyway?” (and hearing God’s answer in a great many of them).

    1. What a beautifully expressed sentiment, Steve. Yes, it is the ordinary moments that stand out especially as special parents like the two of you get to witness the fruit of your labors. Well done, yet again!

  5. Anonymous

    Be aware and open… the moments are always happening!!⭐️

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